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Soft Goth Makeup Is Winter 2023’s Biggest Trend

Wednesday Addams was onto something.

Portrait of Sara Wren wearing a full face of Milk Makeup Products to achieve the soft goth makeup trend Portrait of Sara Wren wearing a full face of Milk Makeup Products to achieve the soft goth makeup trend

Whether she’d like to admit it or not, Wednesday Addams has started a trend: soft goth makeup. The seemingly blood-stained lips, sooty, sunken-in eye makeup, and hollowed-out cheeks—it’s a look the internet is loving right now, and a fresh take on the classic goth aesthetic.

Combine the popularity of Wednesday with the gloomy winter weather, and you have the perfect time to explore this low-key, approachable version of the ultra-edge goth trends of the eighties and nineties, says Sara Wren, our Director of Artistry. 

Soft goth vibes are less about safety pins through your earlobes, liberty spikes, and lipstick as dark as night and more about delicate black lace, sheer black lipgloss, and lived-in liner. 

There is no right or wrong way to do soft goth makeup—and goth-inspired makeup, in general—but here’s a rundown of some Milk Makeup essentials for nailing the spooky-ooky trend. 

Base

Goth makeup of past decades typically veered toward intentionally pale foundation. However, soft goth is more accessible for all because it relies on fresh, satiny matte skin. Start things off with Pore Eclipse Mattifying Primer for a blurred finish that staves off unwanted shine throughout the day. (We may be biased, but Wednesday would so have this product in her makeup bag.) Then, you can spot conceal wherever needed with Future Fluid All Over Cream Concealer

Sara Wren applies Milk Makeup Infinity Longwear Eyeliner in Outer Space + blends it out

Eyeliner


Fill in part of your lids with Infinity Long Wear Eyeliner in Outer Space. Then blend it out with your finger. Do one side at a time so you can blend out the color before it sets.  Then, run the liner in your water line and lower lash line, blending it out to make it look smoky. 

Sara Wren applies Milk Makeup Infinity Longwear Eyeliner in Outer Space + blends it out

Eyeshadow

Once the smokiness is set, add some dimension with subtle color and shimmer. Buff a little Color Chalk in Double Dutch or Bounce on your lids with a small shadow brush or swipe it on and blend in with your fingers.

Finish the eyes by loading up your lashes with several coats of KUSH Mascara for a stunning spidery effect. 

Sara Wren applies Milk Makeup Color Chalk to her lids

Cheeks

Bronzer, in this case, won’t be used to create summertime warmth. Instead, you can swipe Matte Bronzer along the hollows of your cheekbones to amplify the sallow, sad girl vibes of your soft goth look, as Sara does here. 

Sara Wren applies Milk Makeup Matte Bronzer to her cheeks

Lips

You can choose a simple clear glossy lip with Electric Glossy Lip Plumper in Pumped as Sara does here, or you can opt for a little color. Hauntingly deep purples and ethereal black hues are perfect for soft goth makeup. Hit your pout with Lip + Cheek in Quickie. Blot with a tissue or buff in with a clean fingertip. Then, apply another layer for added depth. 

Want something deeper? Concoct your own custom black gloss: tap Color Chalk in Skateboard on top of Electric Glossy Lip Plumper in Pumped. “The more Color Chalk you add, the darker the lip shade will be,” Sara says. Then, smack your lips together to infuse the powder into your gloss.

And you’re done. Before you head out, snap your fingers twice for Wednesday Addams.

Sara Wren applies Milk Makeup Electric Glossy Lip Plumper to her lips

Meet the Expert

Sara Wren (she/her) is the Director of Artistry at Milk Makeup. In her role, she does all the makeup artistry and direction for our Milk Makeup global campaigns, educates the staff and field team on application methods, stars in the brand’s social media videos, and travels to different markets spreading Milk Makeup’s good vibes. When she’s not on set, Sara loves experimenting with DIY hair colors, eating tacos, watching basketball, and scouring for vintage cosmetics to add to her impressive collection.

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Devon Abelman (she/her) is a Brooklyn-based freelance writer who focuses on the intersections and intricacies of beauty, culture, astrology, and mental health. She is passionate about shining light on under-the-radar BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ beauty creators as well as Korea’s impact on global beauty trends. In her spare time, Devon can be found dressing up Scorpion, her XXXL blind-and-deaf rescue dog.

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